Some dating tips for trans women

Sometimes it takes a good fall to really know where you stand; as like when you become a trans woman, you will understand the difficulty of trans dating. In other words, find a trans date is easy, but get a happy date is not easy. I’ve been on more dates than I can count. Starting from the early stages of my transition at age 16, through sexual reassignment surgery at 19, to being a  true transgender woman at 23—I can say with certainty that I’ve gone out with some types of man. So I can share some with you, which can also be said as some dating tips for trans women.

My Encounter

we meet at a friend's birthday party and fall in love at first sight. We were three dates, and I was starting to really like him. One night, we were out dancing in Hollywood and stepped outside to catch some air. I was leaning against the wall, close enough that I could play with the necklace hidden in his shirt. We get closer and closer...

I asked, how about LGBTQ dating, he shocked, I said, “Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer?” His response: “Oh, I’m fine with everything but the Trans.” My face dropped. I asked why he had an issue with the “T.” He said, “I feel sorry but I just don’t believe a woman can be a man.” Until that moment, I wasn’t sure if he knew I was transgender, or if he love me. His mouth agape, he seemed to understand, he said, “Oh my god, I have a fear about this happening, you should have told me.”

The conversation ended when I said, “I want someone who likes me even more because of the courage I had as a young teen. I don’t need to explain myself to you.” His rebuttal: “Well, for the next guy you should probably tell him first.” He walked away, and I walked away. For this date, I feel so sad. Because I like her, and intend to be together for a long time. Dear reader, can you understand my pain?

The next date on trans sites

From then on, I feel dating a man is so difficult. I feel fear, but lonely. Suddenly one day, I found a site named Trans dating sites, which is service for trans dating. I search and looking for some members, it is real nice for me. These previous concerns have shown that that person is simply not suitable for me. In this case, I remind myself that I hope someone does not need to spend time thinking, but is willing to move forward based on our natural chemistry and attractiveness. I regained my confidence and started dating people on this site.

So the best advice for trans women dating is that keep confidence, looking for a match is easy on trans dating sites.

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